December News from Eiros Group
"May your walls know joy, may every room hold laughter, and every window open to great possibility.”
Quote by Mary Anne Radmacher

December Greetings from everyone at Eiros Group! All throughout our Garden State, the sights and sounds of the holidays are upon us, and they remind us of how fortunate we are, to celebrate our successes in 2023, and to share our joy throughout the rest of this month.
During the Season of Giving, we encourage you to make time to give. Whether it's to a charity as a volunteer, bake cookies for your neighbors, or simply to wish "Happy Holidays" to those in passing. Random acts of kindness never go unnoticed, and they always brings a smile to their recipients.
From our families to you and yours, we wish you a very Merry Holiday Season, and a Happy, Healthy and Prosperous New Year!
While many of our customers, employees and service providers have been a part of self-directed services for many years, we also realize that Direct Supports Services and Supports Brokerage are actually relatively new in the state of New Jersey.
Furthermore, many people do not fully understand how Self Direction keeps the persons hope and dreams at the center of services. Both Support Brokerage and Direct Support Professionals can be a game changer for adults with developmental disabilities. Our expertise in these areas puts Eiros in a unique position. We can help people understand what's possible, decipher the acronyms, and provide insight as to why working with Eiros Group, (as a customer, family or services professional) is exciting and rewarding!

Direct Supports Explained
by John Coe, MAS
Director of Community Services
At Eiros Group, we recognize the profound impact of direct support services on individuals and communities. Our commitment to providing these essential services stems from a deep understanding of the unique needs and challenges faced by those we serve.
Direct support services play a pivotal role in fostering a sense of community, empowerment, and well-being. By directly engaging with individuals, our organization can tailor support to their specific needs, creating a more personalized and effective approach. Whether it's offering assistance to individuals with diverse abilities, providing guidance in times of crisis, or delivering essential resources to those in need, our direct support services aim to uplift and enhance lives.
We believe in the power of human connection and the positive outcomes that arise when individuals receive the support they require. Through our dedicated team of professionals, we
strive to build meaningful relationships that go beyond mere assistance, fostering a sense of belonging and promoting independence.
At the heart of our mission is the understanding that direct support services are not just about meeting immediate needs; they are about creating lasting, positive impacts that ripple through communities. By championing direct support, Eiros Group is dedicated to making a difference, one individual at a time, and contributing to the overall well-being and strength of the community we serve. Together, we can build a foundation of support that empowers individuals to thrive and achieve their fullest potential.
November was an exceptionally busy month for us, as we participated in a number of presentations, conferences, meetings and planning sessions. 2024 promises to be full of many new and exciting programs for Eiros Group, including expanding our Culture of Gentleness to new Support Professionals!

TASH Conference 2023
The 2023 TASH Conference took place November 30 – December 2 at the Hyatt Regency Baltimore Inner Harbor, and several members of the Eiros Group team hosted workshops and presentations, including Founder, Jenn Brown, and Director of Support Brokerage, Kristen Matthews, and several of our customers.
Each year, the TASH Conference brings together our constituents to share resources and success stories, learn about field-driven best practices, and network within a community engaged in shared values. The Conference is attended by passionate leaders, experts, and advocates from every corner of the disability community. Conference attendees are influential in their fields and communities, and play an important role in the provision of services and supports for individuals and organizations around the world; and include professors and researchers from leading institutions; those involved in local, state, and federal governments and public policy; special and general educators, and school administrators; self-advocates, adult service providers; students, family members, and many others. This year’s conference theme was Opportunity for All!
We were so excited to have our Support Brokers and Self Directed Customers attend, and present this year! We also loved to network with several Support Brokers from Washington State, Maine and New York. We learned a lot from them in our round table discussions, and it was a very enlightening 4 days of meeting with so many from around the country!







“The Core of Gentle Teaching: Safe and Loved”
Gentle Teaching is not about behavioural change.
By John McGee
It is not even about getting rid of behaviours. These will disappear or diminish as time goes by as a result of the person trusting us. It is not about any behavioural techniques that might be spelled out in a behaviour plan. If a caregiver enters anyone’s space with such intentions, the time spent will have nothing to do with Gentle Teaching. It is a contradiction to anxiously lead with an attitude of, “I have to change this behaviour or that one.”
The central and guiding focus for all caregivers is to help the person learn to feel safe and loved and this requires the prevention of any sort of harm. It is simply wise to not provoke any violence. Prevention gives caregivers the opportunity, space, and time to teach new memories of feeling safe and loved. Doing this dissipates or eliminates maladaptive behaviours as a direct result of feeling safe and loved. This has to be part and parcel of the caring community.

We will be hosting introductory online training sessions for Culture of Gentleness in the New Year. Keep your eye on this newsletter for more information coming soon!
Are you a Support Coordinator who is interested in learning more about Supports Brokerage?

We would love to present at your next staff meeting to provide you and your colleagues more information. Contact Kristen Mathews, our Director of Supports Brokerage, at kristenm@eiros-group.com for more information.

We are growing! We have a number of open positions throughout New Jersey for Direct Support Professionals and experienced caregivers. Want to learn more? Click here and apply today!

Bergen County Special Services School District is hosting a Parent to Parent Exchange Zoom Meeting, facillitated by parent coach Lauren Lavelle. For parents of Adult Children age 21 and over with disabilities on Thursday December 14th at 7:30pm. The mission of the Bergen County Special Services School District is to serve individuals with disabilities through adulthood as a central point of contact for guidance and connection to accessible and appropriate resources. Future meetings are scheduled Jan 11, Feb 8, March 14, April 11, May 9, June 13 and July 11. For more information, call 201-343-6000 ext. 4076
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Transition Planning Season is coming! Have questions? Need guidance? Reach out! We are here to help!

Below are several upcoming activities and events scheduled throughout New Jersey! If you are hosting a similar type of event, and would like it included in our newsletter, please send to jeanmarieh@Eiros-Group.com
*Please allow 2 weeks or more advance notice. Thanks!


Mark your calendars to attend these free Lunch & Learn webinars on the first Wednesday of each month fro 12pm to 1pm
To register, please go to www.parlesrekem.com
• On our home page, click on any event and RSVP.
• When you RSVP, you will receive an email with the link to join the zoom meeting for the event.
• You can also add the event to your calendar.
Medicaid 101
Harold L. Grodberg, Esq. and Abbe Greenberg, LSW
January 3, 2024
Avoiding Common Pitfalls in Trust and Estates Planning
Harold L. Grodberg, Esq. and Abbe Greenberg, LSW
February 7, 2024
Transition: Obtaining Key Assessments and Developing Appropriate IEP Goals
Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq. and Judith Weinstock, Esq.
March 6, 2024
Navigating the IEP Process: What to Include in an Effective IEP
Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq. and Judith Weinstock, Esq.
April 3, 2024
Key Questions When Selecting (or Creating) a Program for Individuals with Autism or I/DD and Challenging Behaviors
Lisa McCauley Parles, Esq.
May 1, 2024
2/9/2024! Join a Night to Shine!
Night to Shine is an unforgettable prom night experience, centered on God’s love, for people with special needs, ages 14 and older. Attend, Volunteer or Host! Night to Shine is a complimentary event for people with special needs hosted by local churches around the world. The event is open to anyone living with disabilities, ages 14 and older.
Members of our teams will be attending Night to Shine events throughout New Jersey. Visit the Night to Shine website to register and for more information. Night to Shine is Worldwide on Friday, February 9, 2024.

Holiday Lights and other events throughout NJ
NORTH JERSEY:
Annual Lights & Carols for a Claus!
Anne Ellen Christmas Tree Farm
Let it Glow: Holiday Lantern Spectacular
Skylands Stadium Light Show & Christmas Village
Orchard of Lights Demarest Farms
https://winterwonderlightshows.com
November 24-December 31
Fanwood’s Famous Christmas House
Valdes Family Christmas Lights
Dasher’s Light Show
Through December 31: 5pm-10:30pm
Let it Glow: A Holiday Lantern Spectacular
November 9 through January 14: 4pm-8pm
Orchard of Lights
November 22 through December 29
Skylands Christmas Light Show & Christmas Village
November 22 through December 30
Turtle Back Zoo: Christmas Lights
December 8 through 31
https://www.westmilford.org/cn/webpage.cfm?tpid=3979
December 23 and 30: 1pm-4pm
Holiday Lights Hayride
November 24 through December 17
Victorian Christmas
December 15-17: 10am-4pm
Morris Hot Cocoa 5k
December 16: 10am-12pm
Christmas Festival at the Morristown Green
December 17 through January 2
Tabletop Games
December 17: 1:30-4:30pm
New Year’s Eve Fireworks Dinner Cruise
December 31: 9:30pm-1am
CENTRAL NEW JERSEY:
Sea of Lights
Koenig’s Family Christmas Light Spectacular
Johnny’s Hazlet Holiday Light Extravaganza
Crazy Christmas Lights in Old Bridge
The Sisti Family Christmas Lights
Forrest Trail Circle Holiday Light Show
Ferone Family Holiday Light Show
Skating on the Square
November 18 through February 25
Night Forms
Grounds for Sculpture
November 24- through April 7: sunset-10pm
Magic of Lights at the PNC Bank Arts Center
November 17 through December 30: 5pm-10pm
Old Fashioned Christmas on the Farm & Walk through Light Show
November 24 through December 23
Middlesex County Fairgrounds
November 24 through December 31
Jenkinson’s Aquarium Sea of Lights Holiday Festival
December 22, 23, 27 and 28: 4pm-8pm
Drumthwacket Holiday Open House
December 16: 11am-2pm
Jurassic Quest
December 28 through January 1
SOUTH NEW JERSEY:
Burlington Lights - Steeplechase Blvd and Tack Way
Cape May Holiday Lights Trolley Ride
Historic Smithville Winter Wonderland
Diggerland Holiday drive thru Light Show
An Old-Fashioned Christmas in Cape May
November 17 through January 1
DiDonato’s Magical Holiday Express
November 17 through December 23: 4:45pm-9pm
Diggerland Drive thru Holiday Light Show
November 17 through December 31: 5pm-9:30pm
Lights on Olmstead Lane
November 17 through January 7: 5pm-9:30pm
South Jersey Holiday Lights Show
November 18 through December 30: 5pm
Christmas Fantasy with Lights Parade
November 18 through December 30
Wildwoods’ Family Holiday Celebration
November 19 through December 31
Cape May Seashore Lines Santa Express
Every weekend
Thanksgiving through Christmas
Christmas Underwater
November 24 through December 24
Johnson’s Corner Farm
November 24 through December 23
Smithville Holiday Lights on the Lake
Thanksgiving through January 6: 5:30pm-8:30pm
WinterFest Ice Skating
November 25 through February 26, 2024
Haddonfield Candlelight Shopping
Every Friday night through December 24
Rowan University Science Hall
November 24 through December 23
Daily Victorian Christmas Tours
December 3 through 30: 1pm, 2pm, 3pm
Christmas in Pitman
December 6 through December 21: every Friday
Holly Jolly Weekend
December 16 and 17: 11am-5pm
New Year’s Eve Fireworks
December 31: 6pm
Night of Lights Country Christmas Drive Thru
If you are hosting a similar type of event, and would like it included in our newsletter, please send to jeanmarieh@Eiros-Group.com
*Please allow 2 weeks or more advance notice. Thanks! Please note, we are relaying information found on other websites or through other organizations, and doing so as a service. Please confirm event details and information directly.